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I’m getting a lot better about putting things away. I washed a beach towel with my towels, and instead of leaving it in the bathroom, I walked over to my closet and put it in. Unusual for me because I pile things. I need to keep it up.

I was awake long enough for my warm pajamas to come out of the dryer, toasty warm. Yummy.

This morning, Mimi was complaining about my closing the bathroom door when I showered. They’re getting back to normal.

I'm cold again upstairs. I don't see a heat vent up here. I leave the door open for the heat to rise through. I need to buy some tea to help me warm up (ordered). Mimi is in a sunbeam. Solar-powered kitty. I think that I need a space heater for the upstairs.

I'm getting "brain zaps" due to my lack of venlafaxine. I didn't see the order on CVS' app, so I submitted it again. I wish that they'd fill it quickly.

Made a couple of phone calls. I'll now have an extra garbage can. Yay.

Hmm. [personal profile] yshaloo mentioned someone who does pet portraits. I kind of would like a wall of the cats that I have had. I wonder how much they cost.

Zara was annoyed about my getting into bed to nap during lunch, but she came back. I really love the warm comforter, and so does she. She is now perched on me.

I've been reading the Alexander McCall Smith books, the 44 Scotland Street series. It was a serial like the Tales of the City. Each book ends with a party in which one of the characters reads a poem that he wrote. In the one that I just finished, he said that parties end like life ends, but maybe we wind up going to another party. That hit me really hard and I started crying.

I called CVS, and they sent a fax to my doctor. I hope that she will respond quickly. I need my meds.

Got the garbage out. I had more than a can’s worth, but I’m waiting for the second can to get it all out.

I received Lawn Care for Dummies. I might bring it with me to Michigan to read in my hotel room.

I'm working upstairs. Zara comes to find me when she wants to be fed. Because she's the boss, I come down and feed them. Mimi chimes in, but Zara initiates the process.

I'm thinking that I should get up early to walk on the treadmill. That would get my blood moving and warm me up.

I finished my to-do list for work. Awesome. Now I think that I'll do a bag of clothes and call it a night. Actually, I think that I'll have to skip the clothes. Oh, and I want to sweep the kitchen/dining area. And I need to post.

Crud. DailyLook sent my box to Michigan, so I need to call them tomorrow to have FedEx go pick up the box. Sigh. I changed my address in their system. Oh well. I can't be the only person to whom this has happened.

Oh. I need to call about the CPAP because they want it back because I haven't been using it. I got it right before my mom died, and I never got it set up. They can have it back. I'll do a CPAP later.

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I fed the girls, and Zara is roaming around here like a shark. She wants more food, but she's not getting it until the afternoon.

Pond guy keeps texting me about the check for their services. I'll text him after my meeting at Hantz this afternoon. (I agreed to have Hantz settle the estate.) Oh, I also had to go to the bank because I was having problems getting my new debit card activated. A very nice lady helped me and was on the phone for a long time to get it fixed up. She also told me to look for a key for my mom's safety deposit box, which could be anywhere, but I'll start with her purse.

Speaking of purses, I want to get a larger one so that I can put the Kindle Scribe in there. I found a nice Michael Kors one. I'm not into designers, but it's nice and big and has a very nice design. I ordered it to be delivered on Sunday.

Uh-oh. I found a Pottery Barn desk that I really like, and it has a keyboard tray. Expensive, of course. But given that I'm taking some of Mom's furniture, I might be able to swing it. Okay, here's one that's cheaper and also has a keyboard tray.

I had a long talk with the chatty pond guy. He said that when I come back, he'd be willing to do a walkthrough of the house with me and make recommendations of people to help me. I also told him that the real estate agent said to paint the trim white, which he said would take a ton of coats to cover the green color and wouldn't suit the house anyway. He told me to get another real estate agent :) He also mentioned that I could rent the house out, which I hadn't considered. Which leads to the question, would I want to retire here? There's a lack of public transportation, which I really don't like, but I love the house and back yard. It would be lovely to get up in the morning and have tea in the gazebo by the waterfall. Travel would be easier from Chicago. I feel like I need more time to sit with all of this. Oh, he also said that I might need a fence for the back yard because of the pond. (It's kind of deep.) I need to do some research about it.

Memorial Health called me about the CPAP. Yeah, I need to set it up, but I've had a lot on my mind. I told them that my mom passed away, but they told me that I have 40 more days to "get into compliance". Sigh.

My voice lesson was excellent. She said that my voice was a little breathy, and she wants me to do exercises to strengthen my voice. Exactly what I'm looking for. She also asked me what singers I like due to their voice, which threw me because I'm more into lyrics than voices. So I have some research to do.

I started running around and putting green dots on stuff that I want to take. It'll help me figure out how much I'd need to move plus help me keep it down to an amount that will fit in the Urbana house. I'm trying to be judicious.

I need to spend the weekend getting organized for my trip and cleaning the kitchen. I think that I'll go to sleep now though after I pay some bills.

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I started setting up my CPAP so that I'll have it ready for tonight. I'll work with the mask when I get home though. I have a problem in that I don't have a bedside lamp though, so how will I be able to see to put on the mask? The outlet by my bed doesn't work, although there is one right above the bed that works. I bought a long extension cord the other day to use the CPAP at Mom's house.

I had my appointment with my therapist. She gave me some advice about dealing with Mom's confusion. The most important thing that she said is that I won't be able to make her happy, which is what I was wanting to do. She also said that I shouldn't try to take care of her at home. She also said that I should give the cats the run of the house and lie to Mom about it.

I've decided to do homework tonight and get an early start back at the old place tomorrow. I'll need to skip Italian.

I ran into a snag with the CPAP in that it takes only distilled water. I'll get some tomorrow. I'm completely congested, so it might be just as well that I can't use it tonight.

Tired

Apr. 1st, 2023 02:13 am
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So freaking tired today. When I logged into class, someone called from hospice at the hospital. I explained that I was out of town, so they're going to call back on Wednesday.

Went and got my CPAP, so that's done. I didn't realize that I'll have to pay $400 for it, but the helpful guy gave me a number to call to make extended payments.

Got to the old place. Lay down for an hour and slept for four hours. I've been working on the kitchen, but my back keeps bothering me.

I'm back. I can sleep in tomorrow because I have a therapy appointment at 3 PM. I could use a mental-health tuneup. I need some advice on how to deal with Mom's confusion.

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Still really tired. I called my Mom's finance people, but they haven't called me back yet. I also called the people with my CPAP and told them that I was still out of town.

I mailed the bills. I need to figure out how I can stop Mom's mail when I'm gone next week. I went and got Mom's stuff from the nursing home. It was a lot of stuff. Then I went to see Mom. She's no longer talking about how she's going to die, but she says that she can't handle this world. She wants to talk to Ken, who is a minister.

I'm in my usual post-Mom "all I want to do is go to sleep" mode. I have stuff to do, but I guess that I'll get up early.

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Memorial called and said that my CPAP was in. I'm playing telephone tag with the guy who called.

Called and cancelled the boarding appointments for the cats. They both will have dental appointments on March 1st though.

Ack. My programming group did meet yesterday. They sent an email about it that I missed. Oh well.

I got my filling replaced. I don't particularly like the new dentist to which my previous dentist sold the practice. But they gave me a referral to a dentist in Urbana whom I want to try. (Note to self: West Main Dental in Urbana.)

The dentist told me to wait an hour before eating (I didn't eat lunch), so I'm going to nap on the air mattress (done). Had dinner at a local coffee shop.

Loaded more bags of garbage and stuff to take back. I'm taking a short break, and then I'll load the car (done).

Great. The zipper on my jacket is broken.

Back home. It's late, but I can sleep late. I'm trying to figure out when I can work on my homework.

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Woke up a little after 9 AM. Put laundry in the dryer. The girls are restless and very hungry. I looked at some U.K. webcams. They're having a gloomy day.

Speaking of Web cams, here's the jellyfish cam. It's mesmerizing and relaxing to watch.

Part of my Pottery Barn refund has gone through. I hope that the rest will come soon. At least, I know that they got the package.

Napped. Woke up before the alarm. Had lunch.

Yikes. The snow removal guy is charging me $60 to do my new place. A snow blower would earn its keep fairly quickly. I paid the snow removal guy and told him to wait until the storm blows over because there's no point in doing it twice.

Ran over to the storage unit. On my way there, I noticed that the local hospital supply place was open, so I went in to ask about my CPAP. They said that CPAPs were supplied in Springfield and that they were running three months behind on supplying them. I told her that I was moving, and she recommended finding a place in Champaign-Urbana.

I discovered that plastic tape works better in the cold than paper tape. I got more plastic tape.

Then I went to Walmart. It was the most busy that I had seen it, given the snowstorm and Christmas this weekend. The packed aisles were giving me the heebie-jeebies. They were cleaned out of bread. I must have been hungry because I bought a bunch of cookies. I also bought a lot of cleaning supplies. I'm ready for the cats and I to be stuck here for a few days.

Zara wants food. Now.

I checked when the storm will start. 9 AM tomorrow. Now the forecasters aren't saying "blizzard," but they are saying "blowing snow".

Napped with Mimi. Now Zara came by to say "Hi'.

Decided that I wanted to go back to sleep. But I staged boxes, tape, and bubble wrap for the morning. I hope that it won't be too much of a mess outside because I need to throw some stuff out.

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